Answer for Full swap or Soft swap?

The answer to that question depends a lot on the strength of your relationship. Many couples start of as soft swap swingers. Meaning that you do pretty much anything but penetration with the other partner, whereas full swap includes full penetration with the other partner. Soft swap is a great starting point as many feel there is a little less intimacy going that way. Remember you can always talk about it later on and change, or you can decide that soft swap is your standard, but if and when you both feel comfortable with another couple you can then change to full swap with that couple only. Just please let them know your rules have changed before you get starting to something, otherwise they may wonder what is going on. So the answer really does rest with the two of you. How comfortable are you seeing your partner go all the way with someone else?